{"id":3870,"date":"2025-06-16T09:23:31","date_gmt":"2025-06-15T23:23:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.melbasupport.com.au\/?p=3870"},"modified":"2026-06-13T18:19:38","modified_gmt":"2026-06-13T08:19:38","slug":"embracing-my-true-self-a-journey-beyond-labels","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.melbasupport.com.au\/embracing-my-true-self-a-journey-beyond-labels\/","title":{"rendered":"Embracing my true self: A journey beyond labels"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3870\" class=\"elementor elementor-3870\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c502ed0 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1c502ed0\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1412b8 e-con-full home-banner e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"1412b8\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-15b36ec0 elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget-laptop__width-initial elementor-widget-tablet_extra__width-initial elementor-widget-tablet__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"15b36ec0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Embracing my true self: A journey beyond labels<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-108de03e elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-info\" data-id=\"108de03e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-f88c87c elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-date\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<time> 16 June 2025<\/time>\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5d39a5c6 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"5d39a5c6\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73845451 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"73845451\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2c97ee1e link elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2c97ee1e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>By Simon Scoggins<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I am many things \u2013 a son, a partner, I love to sew and spend time in the garden, and much more. My sexuality is just one part of who I am; it shouldn\u2019t define me. Yet, for much of my life, it has \u2013 and continues to \u2013 shape how I\u2019m seen and how I navigate the world around me.<\/p>\n<p>Growing up, I learned early that being different came with challenges. But it also taught me resilience, the importance of self-acceptance, and the power of living authentically despite the obstacles.<\/p>\n<p>From a young age, I knew I was different. Thanks to my wonderful parents and grandparents, I have cherished memories of playing with plastic tea sets under the tropical trees of Darwin, surrounded by friends and my homemade Humpty-Dumpty. They never boxed me into \u201cboy\u201d toys or stereotypes. In fact, at nine years old, I convinced my grandmother to buy me a Barbie campervan \u2013 a small act of rebellion that meant the world to me.<\/p>\n<p>Back then, I didn\u2019t have the words to explain how I felt, but I sensed that I was unique. Unfortunately, school and society soon handed me labels \u2013 harsh and hurtful \u2013 and how I expressed love was deemed illegal.<\/p>\n<p>I learned early on that hiding my true self was a survival skill.<\/p>\n<p>Thankfully, society has evolved \u2013 to a point. Events like Mardi Gras lit a path toward self-acceptance and celebration. I slowly learned to navigate life authentically, though discrimination still cast long shadows \u2013 in workplaces, communities and beyond.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-003673f elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"003673f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.melbasupport.com.au\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/SHALLOW-IMAGE-4.png\" title=\"\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5d781e3 link elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5d781e3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The 2017 same-sex marriage plebiscite was a stark reminder of the challenges we face. What should have been a straightforward affirmation of love turned into a divisive spectacle, amplifying homophobia and toxicity, especially on social media. It felt like a step backward, a painful moment that showed how much work remains.<\/p>\n<p>Even today, subtle resistance persists. Just last month, my local council raised the flag for IDAHOBIT Day \u2013 a celebration of LGBTQIA+ rights and inclusion. Yet, some questioned its importance, arguing that fixing roads should take priority. This false choice between infrastructure and equality is a tired but persistent narrative that undermines the dignity of many.<\/p>\n<p>Pride Month is our time to shine a light on equality, inclusion and respect. But it\u2019s also a reminder that even in so-called advanced democracies, these ideals are under threat. For me, it means there are still moments when I must \u201ccome out\u201d again, clarify my pronouns, and correct assumptions about who I love. Sometimes I let it slide in casual settings; other times, I speak up because visibility matters.<\/p>\n<p>The journey is ongoing. Progress has been made, but the road ahead calls for courage, empathy and action. By sharing our stories and standing together, we can create a world where everyone\u2019s true self is celebrated \u2013 without fear, without apology.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks for listening to my story. Let\u2019s keep pushing for a future where love and identity are embraced in all their beautiful diversity.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Simon Scoggins is Melba\u2019s<\/strong>\u00a0<strong>Business\u00a0Application\u00a0Support\u00a0Officer<\/strong><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43877785 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"43877785\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7da08c61 e-con-full e-flex e-con e-child\" data-id=\"7da08c61\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3654e759 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3654e759\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Share<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5030d337 elementor-share-buttons--view-icon elementor-share-buttons--skin-flat elementor-share-buttons--shape-circle elementor-share-buttons--color-custom elementor-grid-0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-share-buttons\" data-id=\"5030d337\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"share-buttons.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-grid\" role=\"list\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-grid-item\" role=\"listitem\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-share-btn elementor-share-btn_facebook\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-label=\"Share on facebook\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-share-btn__icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fab-facebook\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M504 256C504 119 393 8 256 8S8 119 8 256c0 123.78 90.69 226.38 209.25 245V327.69h-63V256h63v-54.64c0-62.15 37-96.48 93.67-96.48 27.14 0 55.52 4.84 55.52 4.84v61h-31.28c-30.8 0-40.41 19.12-40.41 38.73V256h68.78l-11 71.69h-57.78V501C413.31 482.38 504 379.78 504 256z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-grid-item\" role=\"listitem\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-share-btn elementor-share-btn_linkedin\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-label=\"Share on linkedin\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-share-btn__icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fab-linkedin\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M416 32H31.9C14.3 32 0 46.5 0 64.3v383.4C0 465.5 14.3 480 31.9 480H416c17.6 0 32-14.5 32-32.3V64.3c0-17.8-14.4-32.3-32-32.3zM135.4 416H69V202.2h66.5V416zm-33.2-243c-21.3 0-38.5-17.3-38.5-38.5S80.9 96 102.2 96c21.2 0 38.5 17.3 38.5 38.5 0 21.3-17.2 38.5-38.5 38.5zm282.1 243h-66.4V312c0-24.8-.5-56.7-34.5-56.7-34.6 0-39.9 27-39.9 54.9V416h-66.4V202.2h63.7v29.2h.9c8.9-16.8 30.6-34.5 62.9-34.5 67.2 0 79.7 44.3 79.7 101.9V416z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-grid-item\" role=\"listitem\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-share-btn elementor-share-btn_email\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-label=\"Share on email\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-share-btn__icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<svg aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"e-font-icon-svg e-fas-envelope\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><path d=\"M502.3 190.8c3.9-3.1 9.7-.2 9.7 4.7V400c0 26.5-21.5 48-48 48H48c-26.5 0-48-21.5-48-48V195.6c0-5 5.7-7.8 9.7-4.7 22.4 17.4 52.1 39.5 154.1 113.6 21.1 15.4 56.7 47.8 92.2 47.6 35.7.3 72-32.8 92.3-47.6 102-74.1 131.6-96.3 154-113.7zM256 320c23.2.4 56.6-29.2 73.4-41.4 132.7-96.3 142.8-104.7 173.4-128.7 5.8-4.5 9.2-11.5 9.2-18.9v-19c0-26.5-21.5-48-48-48H48C21.5 64 0 85.5 0 112v19c0 7.4 3.4 14.3 9.2 18.9 30.6 23.9 40.7 32.4 173.4 128.7 16.8 12.2 50.2 41.8 73.4 41.4z\"><\/path><\/svg>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Growing up, Simon Scoggins learned early that being different meant having to hide parts of himself. 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